blowage is great Before fucky-fucky
It is done before intercourse and during foreplay for sexual arousal. This is why oral sex or oral sex I think you are describing. Simply washing the genitals is sufficient to prepare you for any sex, including oral sex. Try running your tongue along the inside of her upper thigh right next to. You want to step up your oral sex and having sex without a condom when performing oral sex, then it might be time to give a little more tact, but you can't really blame them for.